Sights Unscene…

This has nothing to do with the strip — As a proud sis, I’d like to give my brother a plug for his wonderful new photography book featuring his home state of NH (yes, he beat me to the publishing punch). Brad has been capturing nature imagery all his adult life; before that he enjoyed torturing his siblings. For more detailed info and a comprehensive look at his work, check out Brad’s website .


Now Available to order: “SIGHTS UNSCENE: NEW HAMPSHIRE” !!!136 pages, 123 images, 9 1/2 X 9 1/2 inches.Interspersed with quotes from Philosophers, Artists, and Scientists.Divided into Rural, Scenic, and Urban sections.Soon to be available through Borders, Barnes and Noble, Amazon.Com, etc

To order, send $39.95 for each book plus $8 shipping to:

Sights Unscene
PO Box 5445
Weirs Beach, NH 03246

OR call for more information or credit card transactions at: 603-366-7700 (Mondays and Thursdays)
OR for even more information, send email to: brad@sightsunscene.com or call 603-491-3297

“New England is a special place, ripe with treasures for an artist in any medium. Brad’s work provides us the pleasure of experiencing these places through his distinct perspective and, whether traveling with him 1000 feet above the landscape or following him along a seldom traveled back road, we are allowed to see moments that are all too often missed.

Brad journeys through the bounty of New Hampshire’s four seasons and graciously allows us to walk or even fly beside him then stop and consider that unique moment: a page pulled from his visual journals. It is a harvest of personal insight and an adventure well worth taking.”

by David Mendelsohn (”Among his many awards and honors, [David] has recently been declared a Nikon Legend.” Foto Magazine)

Yom Kippur and more…

I received a few emails about my Yom Kippur strip from 10/9. I was obviously off the mark when it came to portraying this High Holy Day. This is one of those instances where the joke came first and the details seemed less relevant at the time.

 

In hindsight, it’s hard to justify Jill doing laundry and Amy watching TV. In my mind, I was thinking the family had come home from temple and was trying to stay distracted from hunger in the remaining hours leading to the break-the-fast. Of course, this was never apparent. Not being overly religious myself (though observant in my own right), it didn’t occur to me how dismissing this was to others. Oops. Point well taken, folks. Not to happen again.

 

On a different note…

I received a nice email from a reader who enjoyed the 10/18 Sunday strip (below).

 

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She shared with me this photo of a sand angel she happened upon while visiting Yellowstone National Park this summer. As she put it, “It seems any medium is appropriate for angels!”
Well said.

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Plot Twist…

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Poor Nanci. Poor, poor Nanci. She’s a mess, people. At the end of September her husband left her and now she’s picking up the pieces.

I’d been toying around with the side character, Lisa’s, relationship for a while. No huge story line, just small teasers here and there. She and her business-travelling hubby have had issues and are seeing a marriage counselor. But Nanci’s marital woes seemed to come from thin air.

I did this intentionally – partly for the surprise factor, and partly because Nanci is meant to be a proud person, afraid of showing her vulnerabilities. So with her, bad news is dealt with at the last second.

It also shows a side of Jill that’s unique …her judgmental side. Not the everyday domestic variety, but a holier-than-thou attitude with her friends. Usually she’s the vulnerable, indecisive one in the crowd. Now she’s starting to feel a little superior when it comes to doling out relationship advice. Thankfully, her friends keep her in check:

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Stay tuned for more Nanci drama. We’ll see what the new year holds…

I am an evil, subpar excuse for a human being replacing FBOFW…

As you probably know, the much-beloved comic strip, “For Better or For Worse” has gone into a modified rerun format. I have always been an admirer of FBOFW, but as an up-and-coming comic strip artist hoping to get into papers and make a living from something I love, the cartoonist part of me is gratified that some papers decided to publish/test Pajama Diaries in its place.

There has been, of course, controversy surrounding any strip that has taken this golden spot in the funny pages. Some readers welcome the change, some think it’s a travesty.  For the cartoonist, it’s a catch-22. We don’t want the backlash, but would be crazy not to jump at the opportunity. So we patiently wait out any controversy and hope the readers give it some time to (at first begrudgingly) embrace the new feature.

Let’s put things into perspective. Comic syndication is a dog-eat-dog business. Usually the only way a comic can get into the papers is if something else is booted out. This makes it tough for new talent, especially when dealing with tight real estate. I really hate this part of the business because I love so many other comic strips myself and know how much work goes into them. But I also knew the rules going in, so I deal.

Which leads me to…

I recently came across this archived article by Dave Kellett (“Sheldon”). It really explains the business side of cartooning in a humorous, inclusive way, so I thought I’d share (side note: I definitely identify with the “bag of tricks” reference when it comes to writer’s block).

Cartooning is tough: writer’s block, competition, relentless deadlines. But knowing my cartoon is following in the footsteps of a beloved classic or even running side by side…well, that’s what makes it so rewarding.

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To K or not to K…

Ah, the start of school in the Cleveland suburbs. The charged atmosphere. The nervous kids. The relieved parents. The nerve-racked decision-making of whether or not to send a nearly 6-year-old to kindergarten or first grade. As you’ve probably guessed, this series is based on our actual decision-making process.

To non-parents, this problem probably seems irrelevant, but to those with “fall babies” (kids who missed last year’s Kindergarten cut-off date), this is an agonizing, life-or-death situation (at least to neurotics like me).

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PeeWeePrim

Our child is academically ready for first grade. She can read, write, and knows preliminary math. She already conquered private kindergarten (which acts as a pre-K if necessary). But socially… that’s another story.

My daughter loves to play the “baby.” That is, she looks up to older kids and her maturity level is on par with preschoolers. She’s also on the small side for her age and in group situations can have the attention span of a gnat.

So…we’re holding her back. Better to have a head start than fall behind, I think. My husband disagrees. He wants her to forge ahead and challenge herself. But he graciously took the backseat on this one. That is, until Kindergarten screening takes place and she beats the training pants off the other rugrats. Or so he thinks.

The “V” word…

I have a feeling I’ll be getting some feedback this week. Why, you ask? Welllll, maybe because I’m publishing a series of strips all about Rob’s…yes, vasectomy. Why would I do that, you (again) ask? Because as invasive and painful as this procedure is, it’s relevant, topical, and…c’mon, admit it…humorous (assuming you’re not one of the unlucky ones who’ve had some nasty post-surgical side effects).

I actually wrote a preliminary version of this series a year and a half ago. I didn’t want to publish it until I felt comfortable. But the more prevalent the topic became (I couldn’t wave a stick without hitting a friend or neighbor who’ve proclaimed to have had it done), the more I thought, why not? It’s become so mainstream to talk about and is often a subject openly discussed among parents in the 30-40-something set.

My husband and I agreed from the onset we only wanted two kids. So he had it done a few years ago amidst – surprisingly — my reservations. I was very superstitious about it, the prevailing thought being: what if he has it done and then through some kind of Karmic retribution, something happens to one of the kids? I eventually got over myself and hubby got snipped. Later, I thought those underlying fears were something to explore in the strip. I channeled similar reservations into Jill’s character, adding some irreverent humor along the way.

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Originally, I was going to include the child characters asking their parents questions about Rob’s surgery. After all, my own kids were obviously around when my husband had it done; believe me, they couldn’t stop asking questions (it’s hard not to when  dad is lying around with a bag of frozen peas on his crotch). We had opted to be honest with them without mentioning the grisly details: “Daddy had an operation so we can’t have any more kids.” I think my “independent” older daughter was thrilled…no more sibs to annoy her. Anyway, I tried my hand at a couple of kid-related strips in this series, but they just didn’t measure up to the others. So they were…ahem…cut.

I hope you enjoy this series, which ends Saturday. Commentary (good or bad) can be directed here. Personal vaz anecdotes are welcome.

Sibling rivalry, sibling rivalry, and more sibling rivalry…

  

If you’re a habitual Pajama Diaries reader, you’ll notice this is a subject I periodically focus on (in fact, the term’s so familiar to me, I just call it SR). Our kids, who are so sweet-natured alone, become the spawns of Satan anytime they’re around each other for more than 3 seconds. Okay, I’m exaggerating. In actuality, it’s about 50% best of friends, 50% hatin’ on each other.

We had a reprieve in the fall/early winter when they joined forces and decided to become roommates. We pushed our younger daughter’s bed into the older child’s bedroom. It seemed perfect: they kept each other company and also kept each other from getting scared at night. Then came the spring chill. Like the effects of an exorcism, the winter reprieve served to keep the demons temporarily at bay; now those demons are back and more spiteful than ever.

We’re taking steps to calm the storm again. I’m reading everything I can get my hands on about SR, and we’re trying to get the kids to work things out themselves. The one ray of light is that when they DO get along, they’re extremely close. ‘Course, that’s usually when they’re conspiring against us…

Thankfully SR makes for terrific comic fodder…

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I’ve created more on this subject…be on the lookout in July and August.

Reubens 2008…

Well, despite my fear of planes (four in this case), Mike and I made it to and from the Reubens in one piece.

We had a wonderful time in New Orleans. I’m already learning that the longer people cartoon, the harder they drink. Don’t know if it’s the isolation or the long hours…all I know is that when hundreds of cartoonists gather in one spot, they collectively lower their IQ’s. It’s a rare, wonderful, slightly disturbing sight to behold.

Believe me, I’m no exception. Still, I tried to stay at a respectable sobriety level just so my head wouldn’t hit the floor before things got hopping. Here’s a semi-brief summary of the long weekend, categorized by day:

Thursday, May 22:
Mike and I arrived in what appeared to be Hurricane Katrina, part 2. It was actually a terrible downpour that thankfully subsided for the rest of the weekend. We ate, talked, and fell into the world’s softest bed at exactly 6:02 pm Central Time. We did not get up until 12 hours later. Could it be nature’s way of saying we needed not a vacation, but bed rest?

Friday, May 23:
Mike and I gathered with many other folks in the lobby of the hotel to embark on an NCS-sponsored Habitat for Humanity project. We travelled roughly two hours to the house sites (split up in three groups), where lots of hammering, shingling (is that a word?), and sawing ensued. Mike helped saw siding, while I helped hammer it onto the back of the house. Man, did I feel empowered. After a brief adrenaline rush, I proudly announced to my husband I was ready to dry wall our entire basement. I claim temporary insanity.

Anyway, it was a very touching and rewarding day. I know its cliché, but it felt gratifying to help do our part. It was also a very connecting experience for the people in our group (there was, of course, the running joke about the stability of a house built by cartoonists). Afterwards, the bus driver took us on a tour of the 9th district, where we saw the devastation of Katrina, still very much evident today.

On a different note: Back at the hotel, we attended the NCS Welcome cocktail party…thankfully indoors, as the humidity was starting to make my hair resemble a troll doll’s. I must say, now that I’ve been in the “business” a little longer, it was far easier to meet people and talk shop. Mike and I also had fun catching up with people we’ve gotten to know in the past few years.

Saturday, May 24:
More schmoozing at the NCS brunch. Lots of eating. Mike and I stole some time away in the sweltering morning to tour around the French Quarter. I saw Bourbon Street in a slightly less hazy, more sober view than 20 years ago as a college freshman attending Marti Gras (is it me or is there too much drinking reference in this blog entry?). I ate a really good eggplant po’boy, which filled me up for the rest of the year.

In the afternoon, I attended a Mort Gerberg seminar (he was one of my Habitat hammering partners, by the way) and a Sandra Boynton seminar (also in my habitat group, I found out later…I think she was on the roof). Both sessions excellent and informative. Sandra Boynton was wryly funny…something I would’ve expected.

Mike and I had a great table at the Reubens banquet. We sat with other King Features cartoonists/industry folks and enjoyed the ceremony. We then collapsed back in the ridiculously comfortable bed, knowing that would be the last night of peaceful bliss for at least another year.

Sunday, May 25:
Back to Cleveland, early morning.

All in all, a great time, a fun and gratifying vacation, and validation that most cartoonists lead the same kind of solitary, time-consuming, rewarding, stressful, passionate, fantastic existence!

Some pics from the weekend:

Mike’s impressive panoramic shot of the Mississippi

 

Cheesy but necessary photo op while touring French Quarter

Some balcony décor

 

 

Mirror/tile mosaic floor of tourist shop. Very cool.

   

    

   

At the Welcome cocktail event: Carla Ventresca, Henry Beckett, Terri

 

 

At the Reubens Banquet: Terri, King Features comics editor Brendan Burford, Rina Piccolo

  

Hillary Price, Mort Gerberg, Terri

Another panoramic view: The Banquet Hall

(We didn’t take too many event pictures. You can see more online on other cartoonist blogs/sites. I think I snuck into a few.)

Reubens 2006

Normally this blog centers around the creation of a particular PD strip or strip series. But as my husband, Mike, and I gear up to go to the Reuben Awards (Oscars of cartooning) this Memorial Day weekend in New Orleans, I thought it’d be fun to backtrack and share some musings on the first and only Reubens we attended in Chicago, ’06.

With my strip barely launched – it had only been syndicated for two months – this event was intimidating to say the least. Surrounded by some of the greats, I relied on my outgoing husband to do much of the meeting and greeting while I stood there, open-mouthed, as he launched into conversations about the field of cartooning (mind you, he’s an I.T. guy) with giants like Jerry Scott, his wife, half the King Features executives, and countless other bigwigs. Most people outside King assumed he was the cartoonist and I was along for the ride.

Barely into the weekend, I started attending the seminars alone while Mike explored downtown Chicago. This forced me to introduce myself to other cartoonists and industry folks. Normally shy under these circumstances, I started to make friends and acquaintances. By the time the big awards show was underway, we were having a grand old time. The one hiccup was my choosing a long turquoise dress which stuck out like a sore thumb among the (mostly) black-clad attendees. Luckily a few glasses of wine got me over it.

One of the fun highlights was meeting some of Lynn Johnston’s posse (also known as her professional staff) in the ladies room. They were so lovely and friendly, and invited Mike and I up to a private “after party” somewhere in the depths of the luxury hotel. Unfortunately, the famed cartoonist was nowhere to be seen. But earlier, they managed to snap a quick photo of me with Ms. Johnston.

Here are a few photos from the event…the only photos I have, in fact:

This is a candid of myself and Mort Walker at the Friday night cocktail event. He had no idea who I was. Since this photo was taken, I’ve had the opportunity to meet him on another occasion. He now may be able to pick me out of a lineup.

                           

This one of the terrible twosome was taken in our hotel room (using a camera timer) before the Reubens Award banquet.

Here’s the infamous photo with the gracious Lynn Johnston (excuse the fuzziness). I found out later she had made this “cartoon” dress herself. Will the talent never cease.

This year, Mike and I look forward to meeting some new faces and greeting some familiar ones. I’m sure it’ll be a weekend to remember, and something to post about.

3/9 and more…

I thought I’d send a shout-out to readers, family, and friends who have given great comic inspiration in recent months (mostly intentional). I really do file the ideas I receive, so if you ever get struck by the “great idea” lightening bolt, feel free to share.

Also, you can now subscribe to the entire PD blog and not just to specific entries. Here is the info for an RSS reader:

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As an aside, a reader recently asked me to post the March 9th strip. Since I now can contractually, here it is.

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I decided against posting it with the new samples because it caused some controversy (see “Re: Skinny Bashing”). Also, there were other Sundays I prefer.

A final thought: sometimes I receive emails from readers asking how they can see PD in a paper that’s not currently running it. I can’t stress how important it is to email the editor or features editor of the paper (better yet, ask your friends to help out, too). See the “Support the Diaries” link for more info.

Thanks, everyone!

An Evolution…

Of course, anyone who follows cartooning and comic strips understands that a creator’s drawing style usually changes throughout the years (just look at old Peanuts or Bloom County cartoons). Even PD, which is still relatively new, has undergone character transformations. Some of this has been unconscious, some completely predetermined.

The unconscious part was due to my being out of drawing practice when the strip launched. As I regained my skills, my drawings simply improved. Also, in the beginning, I had attempted to caricaturize the people in PD (i.e. making arms and legs rubbery, bodies shortened). This went against my inherent nature of naturalizing figures…that is, making their bodies/gestures a bit more realistic-looking like they are now.

Earlier I used thicker Micron pens, so the line quality was heavier. The colors I selected were also brighter. I seem to prefer a more  subdued palette these days…still love the gradation, though.

The predetermined part stems from the characters aging…especially the kids. The girls are taller, more mature-looking. All the characters’ eyes/noses are a little larger and bulbous, the adults’ faces slightly elongated. As for editing, I scrapped Amy’s baby talk early on (yep, you’re welcome).

Samples from early 2006:

Teenagers


Doublestandard


Samples from 2008:

(Sunday title panel – Amy and Jess)

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(Rob close-up)

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(Sunday title panel — Jill & friends)

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Kaplan family in 2006:

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*** Kaplan family in 2008:

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This May, readers who look closely may notice one very subtle change…hair. Amy and Jess’s hair will start growing a little longer. My older daughter always had short, kinky curls that tended to grow “up” rather than down. Gravity is just now starting to overtake it, which inspired the characters’ hair revolution. Anyway, I like the idea of toying with the characters’ hair a bit – short of sticking a thousand clips and bows in it like my kids do.

As for future parallels and whether Jill’s hips will someday expand and Rob’s hair will completely fall out (my husband shaves his head, so who knows what’s left), that’s yet to be determined. For now, I’m still in denial.

(PS New strips on the samples page coming soon. Stay tuned…)

Re: Skinny-Bashing

I’ve decided that any time I get multiple complaints about a strip, I’ll probably do a blog post about it.

The March 9th Sunday strip struck a cord with some readers (sorry, contractually, I can’t post the actual cartoon for another two weeks). Okay, let me set the record straight. I’m not skinny-bashing.

I myself am a slender, small-framed woman who tries to exercise regularly. I wasn’t trying to slam thin women. I was using humor to portray that busy moms who often don’t have time to exercise may feel envious of the ones who do (completely unfounded, of course). Although I try to stay in shape, I still sometimes feel soft and mushy compared to the ones with gravity-defying body parts (moms, I mean – not teenagers. Well, them, too). The cartoon is satirical and spoofy. I think it’s safe to say that the rock-hard moms with “yogafied butts” are more of a rarity. If you are one of them, all the power to you.

It’s always interesting for me to see which strips touch a nerve. Usually I’m just writing from the heart, either through casual observation or pointed opinion. Sometimes the strips that I think will cause offense slide on by, while others that seem safe to me will cause my inbox to go on red alert. In the case of this strip, I’m not very surprised I got feedback. Just remember: it is satire.

My Inner Tomboy…

I’ve never had a typical “girly” sense of humor. I hate “chick lit” and – other than Lynda Barry – was never particularly influenced by female cartoonists. Not that I don’t admire or read comic strips by other women. I absolutely do and I have…but I don’t necessarily seek them out over other ones.

An interesting fact: before Pajama Diaries, most of the cartoon protagonists I developed were men. They were always alter egos of myself and weren’t overtly feminine (other than displaying a few of my klutzy/neurotic tendencies). For some reason, on paper I used to feel more comfortable in the “male” mind. Obviously, this has changed. I’m glad it has; I think the world needs more women delivering the punchlines.

Still…I was happy to take a vacation from the female mindset and introduce a two-week series from Rob’s (the husband) standpoint. This series lasts until March 15th. I did it as an homage to my own long-suffering husband whose alter ego frequently plays the “straight man” in PD. In reality, he’s actually used to being more of the source of entertainment.

This was a fun series to write…as well as a much-needed break from my feminine side. Thanks for the inspiration, Honey!

(New Year’s Resolution Update: I’ve been workin’ my tailbone off and am now FIVE days ahead…on top of the regular five-week lead time for turning in strips. This is monumental, especially since my kids have had a couple of snow days recently. Yay, me!! Let’s hope this trend lasts…)

An apology…

Sometimes, even after proof-reading a strip three times, having your husband and possibly a friend or two check it over,  and — short of running it through the airport scanner — hindsight is still 20/20. I owe the Tooth Fairy and many readers an apology for the parents’ false impersonation in today’s strip. I just received this feedback: 

“Where do I submit a comment not related to your blog but to the comic itself? My 9 year old reads the comics and today (Feb 18) he read them before me. Can you imagine how it felt for me to read your unveiling of the tooth fairy in today’s strip? Why, why, why? Do you think only mom’s read your strip? How about a strip about that, about trying to continue to foster the innocence of childhood to have it wiped out in the safest of places in the newspaper, the comics? Do I have to redact the comics?”

I’ll get emails occasionally complaining about a strip. I try to take these letters to heart and remember the scenario for next time. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t always agree…but I figure if a person cares enough to write, I care enough to respond and take their letter seriously.   I am apologizing because this simple scenario completely, unfathomably escaped me. Why? No idea. My 7-year-old daughter read this cartoon and never even mentioned it (and she believes in her). All I can say is it was one of those “dohh!” moments. Ironically, last year I was careful to tread lightly around the existence of certain major December holiday character (there’s a sample of it in this blog under “J Factor”).  

So, sorry to the reader and everyone else — I do apologize!,

What Started It All…

I just had an interview with a writer from my college alumni magazine (Wahington U, St Louis). While chatting with her, I mentioned an old, irreverent college strip that I tried to get syndicated after graduation, called “Zero.” Since it was a college-based strip, editors weren’t too keen on publishing it (although many wrote nice things in their rejection letters).

I’ve always had an affinity for this cartoon. I even showed it to the King Features editor, Jay Kennedy, during the PD launch just as a fun diversion. I also whipped out his glowing rejection letter.

Thought I’d post some of those early strips, drawn back in ‘92-ish. Figured they might inspire some younger cartoonists who are hoping to get syndicated, or provide them with an excuse to say, “Man, I can do sooo much better than this s**t!”

To read more about Zero click on the image

3 Down…

I haven’t posted anything exciting to this blog in the past two weeks because I’ve been busy working ahead yet again. I’ve now garnered three days. This probably doesn’t seem noteworthy to most people, but in Cartoon Land, it’s quite a feat. Exactly what does this mean? Well, it means I have an extra three days to check over work, change out one cartoon for another if need be, and have some extra cushion for those pesky emergencies (or a giant sale).

Actually, I don’t plan on blowing any of those days if I can help it. They’re too precious. Instead, I decided once I’m an even two weeks ahead, I’ll start earning myself an actual “vacation” day once a month. Like the corporate policy at my husband’s workplace, if I don’t use it, I’ll roll it over to the next month, and so on. Guess I’ll have my own little corporate vacation policy. Let’s hope it works.

Huh. After that little spiel, looks like I still haven’t posted anything exciting…

Coping

80’s Jill

I recently came up with a new character, a specter of Jill’s former self from her teenage years who occasionally turns up in the bathroom mirror.

This character, whom I refer to as “80’s Jill,” serves several purposes. She’s there to remind Jill of earlier ideologies she sometimes forgets in her hectic, here-and-now mentality. Sometimes, she brings out former insecurities which Jill has tried to deny or forget. Other times, she’s just there to show off her gnarly hair roll.

80’s Jill creepily resembles my own high school yearbook photo minus the chubbier cheeks I sported back then (if I ever get the nerve, maybe I’ll post the photo). I like her so much, I decided to make her a reoccurring character in the strip.

Coping

On a different note…

New Year’s Resolution Update! :
I’ve managed to get ahead 2 days now.  I’m tempted to waste away one of those days due to the sniffles, but unless I have the plague, it’s back to the drawing board.

One Down, Eleven to Go…

Don’t know how I did it, but between reorganizing my work calendar and working ahead during the last two weeks, I managed to finagle 1 solid day off. Woohoo! Goal: to “earn” 11 more days by the end of June (2 per month). Ready, set, guhh!

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New Year, Same Resolution

It’s been a hectic season. One nice thing: Hanukkah came early this year, so I was able to do most of the family
shopping before the mad rush. The cartoon character fared slightly differently:


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Against better judgment, I bought my kids a big-ticket “educational” toy…one of those “Smart Globes” that you can update with online information. Normally the girls ignore the educational stuff, but I learned a trick…I didn’t force the toy on them but kept it sitting on our family room table like an odd little centerpiece. After a few days they began gravitating toward it. Once Mollie found the country named after her (“Mali”…close enough), she was hooked.

Meanwhile, I also gave them some much-desired Webkinz. While the globe was initially ignored, they were comforted by toys they really wanted. And never underestimate the lure of gift boxes…

HolidayBoxes

 

Most of “our” family vacation (mine was about a day and a half long) was spent relaxing at home. At one point I became stir-crazy and forced an afternoon of culture onto my husband and kids. I dragged them semi-enthusiastically through the History Museum and then downright comatose through an Impressionism exhibit at the art museum. I think that gave them their fill for the year.

We also joined some other families at an indoor water park during a fun Xmas Day (yes, there actually is something else to do besides eat Chinese food) and spent another day volunteering at our synagogue. We helped make soup packages, artwork for hospice folk, and – I love this – “goody bags” for dogs and cats in animal shelters. Because I’m such a pack rat, the day inspired me to sort through the girls’ vast artwork collection and see about donating some to a kids’ hospital ward.

Yep, it was a jam-packed December-slash-early-January. Most of the time I was working, but it felt good to sleep in a little and enjoy the freedom of not having to coax the kids onto the bus or get them to do homework. A little relief goes a long way!

As for my New Year’s resolution (by the way, this was also an unmet resolution for ’07), I’m going to do my darnest to start earning myself some time off by working ahead. Believe it or not (if you’re a cartoonist you can believe it), this is an amazing feat. My initial cartoon launch was supposed to be Mother’s Day, 2006. It was pushed up to March, and what was supposed to be nice extra padding of a two-month lead forced me to barely meet my deadlines. I’ve never quite caught up and have been lucky so far not to have any emergency setbacks (oh yeah…I just jinxed myself).

Anyway, if I make it a goal of gaining two days each month, it is possible I could earn some substantial emergency/sick (me or kids) /vacation/personal/sanity/need to watch an 8-hour “Scrubs” marathon… time. I’ll let you know how it goes.

Happy New Year!

P.M.-What?

If you read Pajama Diaries on a daily basis, you’ll notice this week’s series touches on a sensitive subject. This past summer I was diagnosed with something called “P.M.D.D.” (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder). It’s like P.M.S. gone haywire. It was pretty severe…it really affected my everyday happenings and got worse each month.

After I was diagnosed, I did extensive research on the symptoms and treatments. Although the doctor recommended a low-dose antidepressant, I was skeptical. After a month of hesitation (and more research), I tried it. It proved very effective in treating my symptoms. I imagine I won’t be on it forever, but in the meantime, it helps.

I decided to illustrate a portion of this journey in a strip series that runs this week and part of next week. Since the use of antidepressants can be a touchy subject, I’d like to stress that I’m not endorsing these pills. I’m documenting one person’s experience, and in no way do I believe antidepressants are the universal solution to this condition. What I do hope is that these strips bring to light a fairly treatable disorder that can be hard to diagnose and is quite debilitating.

With that said, this series not a downer – I actually kept it pretty light-hearted. I’m curious about the response.